I have been trying various dating sites for a long time, but I often find that girls either don't respond or the conversation quickly loses interest. Has anyone had a similar experience and can advise on how to write the first message correctly so that it attracts the girl's attention and does not look like a standard template? Perhaps there are specific techniques or topics that work best?
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I had the same problem before, and I realized most first messages fail because they sound copied or too generic. What worked better for me was mentioning something specific from her profile and asking a simple question about it instead of just saying “hi” or complimenting appearance. Short, natural messages usually get more replies. I’ve even practiced conversation flow on platforms like https://transai.chat/ to get better at keeping chats engaging and less repetitive.