I have been trying various dating sites for a long time, but I often find that girls either don't respond or the conversation quickly loses interest. Has anyone had a similar experience and can advise on how to write the first message correctly so that it attracts the girl's attention and does not look like a standard template? Perhaps there are specific techniques or topics that work best?
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I've had the same experience, and I realized the first message works best when it's personal and based on something from her profile instead of a generic compliment. Asking an open-ended question also makes it easier to keep the conversation going. I even tried AI GF Love to practice starting conversations, and it gave me useful ideas that felt much more natural and engaging.